7 Ways to Make a Conversation With Anyone (Malavika Varadan)

The explanation of how to create a conversation with almost anyone is presented here. But before the details, keep in mind that in order to make a conversation, you need to always carry yourself in enthusiasm, positivity, and full of energy in order to create a better athmosphere. 

So, here are 7 little tricks you can employ: 

1. The first word flood gates. in every conversation, the beginning probably is the hardest. the words that you want to utter kinda stuck in the throat. Are you nervous? doubt? may be. dont think about it, just say what you want to say. a hi, hey hello, etc. make a simple move. this way give your target the confirmation that you are available for having a conversation. First word will open the gate to enter a meaningful conversation. so, say it and everything will flow. 

2. Skip the small talk. instead of wasting time asking how are you, its better to jump directly into personal questions. dont be affraid. you will suprise by knowing the fact that people are willingly to share after you are asking. ex: " ah interesting name, is there any story behind it?..blabla"

3. Find the "me too"s. its funny to start a conversation with a debate. because nothing kills the conversation other that negativity. in your first time, it is better to make an effort in finding what make you and your target have in common. it will ease the conversation because both of you are now in the same side. share it!

4. Pay a unique compliment. people will probably forget about what you do, what you say, but they would never forget about how you make them feel. be generous and give someone a nice, full compliment. But you should be really carefull with "compliment immunity". certain people are too often to hear certain compliment so when you say the same word, it would never work. ex, a beautiful model might be immune to the word "beautiful" due to the fact that she heard it for twenty four seven. stay away from that and try to construct a unique and genuine thing about your target. No lying just uncover the true beauty of it. 

5. Ask for an opinion. everyone has opinions and want them to be heard and everybody wants a validations. so go and ask for an opinion and that will open up the two-way streets, the real conversation begin. avoid to aksing an opinion on something very difficult, it looks like almost intimidating. Just generic issue. 

6. Be present. when you ask your target to speak up, listen. listen to understand not to reply. be really in that conversation. keep your eye on them, make eye contact. show that you are there and listening. just be there. 

7. Name, place, animal, things. if possible, remember as much detail as possible about your target. their name, their animal, their place, their favorite drink, blabla. it will make them feel so important and valued. remeber the detail and repeat it back to them. 

Here are seven ways how to make a conversation alot more easier. happy reading.